Many boys become friends in order to establish sexual relations, and in the case of girls, those girls who are unrestrained tend to this way and that.
One of the social problems that is added to the number of young people involved every day is street friendships, following which there is a possibility of increasing illicit relationships in the society, unaware that they have an uncertain future full of mental and physical discomfort for themselves. Marks.
Dr. Amanullah Qarai Moghadam, a sociologist and university professor, said about street friendships: In the surveys that we conducted last year on 50 girls in Alborz province as a sample, we noticed that most of them suffered from mental, mental and nervous problems and their work was stretched to narrow places.
Referring to the opinion of boys about such girls, he said: When the boys were asked if they would marry such girls, they did not agree 100% and said: We don’t trust girls who befriended us easily.
Qarai Moghadam considered the purpose of forming many of these friendships to meet the sexual needs, especially of boys, and added: Many boys become friends in order to establish a sexual relationship, and honesty and friendship have no meaning for them, and in the case of girls, those girls who are unrestrained and weak in terms of belief tend to this way and that.
He further added: But girls who keep their chastity with their heart’s faith in God and consider their being a girl sacred and never allow themselves to do so. Of course, we must pay attention, girls who had friendships before marriage always remember the previous sexual relationship and blame themselves and have a guilty conscience. At the same time, some people compare their spouses.
This sociologist pointed out the place of this type of communication among friendship groups and stated: In friendship groups, young people consider it a kind of weakness to have a girlfriend or boyfriend. As the Supreme Leader also pointed to the programs and films promoting this type of communication on satellite networks, which is very alarming and should be prevented from spreading; Of course, our television secretly encourages this type of communication. Therefore, we must prevent this cultural collapse.
This university professor considered prayer and Quran reading to be very effective in preventing this relationship and said: Fasting, reciting prayers and Quran, and attending mosques protect the tendency of young people, especially girls, from many falsehoods; As you can see, in religious areas where more religious girls live, they are not interested in these kinds of friendships.
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